Oh, hello again, world. It’s been a minute (okay, 2-ish months) since I’ve written last. In that time, I’ve moved to a new state, thanks to a new job. Blogging’s been on my mind. And so has change. I’d rather not write clichés. But I can tell you what I’m feeling, how I’m reacting, and…
Category: Serving Goals
A minimalist INFJ’s lessons from a big life change
I’m not much of a procrastinator, but I have learned a lot about myself in the last couple of days, so I apologize for the delay in blogging. No excuses. Instead, here’s some life updates, tossed in with some lessons about myself. I crave time. I measure A LOT. I do things by time: Runs,…
Let feelings direct flow, fun
“Only talk about what you want,” proclaims almost all of my morning meditations of the last week. It started as a tiny whisper, but it’s grown larger. What. I. Want. When I imagine letting myself do what I want, I have to remember it’s for me, my energy, my space, my time. It’s not about…
Taking control of what I want
A dear friend recently told me to, “control the controllables.” Isn’t that awesome? It gives so much agency to do what I can but also recognize that there are systems so much bigger than me, that only I can do what I can do. So what can I do to work on what I want?…
Raise expectations for yourself first
I think one of the biggest lies of western society is, “the key to life is lowered expectations.” It feels too lose. Too relaxed on life. And for whose expectations? And what kind of expectations do they mean? I believe expectations should start with the self, but they’re influenced based on what’s known and from…
Write do and don’t do lists
I’m back bloggin’ after a week away! There was something I had to do, and I gave much energy to it. Instead of distracting myself with other self-given responsibilities, I focused and got it done. And that idea of CHOOSING ENERGY is what I am writing about today. We’ve all written to do lists. They’re…
A minimalist’s guide to habit building
2021 has been so fruitful for goals. I think that’s because I build habits that sustain them. The goals are SMART so I can clearly see when I’ve missed a day or not. While I’ve logged daily, I am simultaneously getting bored by the format while also seeing the weekly/monthly goals are tougher to quickly…
Feeling powerless? 3 questions to ask
I’ve been writing a ‘Corona Diaries‘ beat for 12 weeks now. And I don’t know if I should keep sticking to this topic, as my city is opening up again. The virus isn’t going away anytime soon. But I don’t think most humans can take self-quarantine much longer. Instead of being worried or feeling powerless,…
How can I keep going during Corona?
Times are indeed a-changing, as this pandemic is affecting healthcare, economics, and people around the world. There has to be some opportunity during these uncertain times. Here’s what I’m doing to help myself and others. i’m trying to keep my work and workout routines. I’m so lucky to still have a job, though the setting…
2020 so far – Surrendering smaller habits for bigger goals
Alternative title: the struggle of saying, “no.” I am terrible at saying this. Even writing these first couple of sentences feels vulnerable. I know I am not alone in this battle: if I say, “yes” to every given opportunity, I show I am capable, reliable, and oh yeah, well-liked (or at least considered). Is always…